How to understand culture through tea

Two pale blue Denby tea cups and saucers, with the spout of a pale blue Denby tea pot pouring tea into one of them

For in-person offices, a good way to understand the workplace culture is to suss out the tea and coffee making facilities. Since I work with a lot of different organisations, over the years I’ve worked with many teams and in a variety of environments. A few years ago, I wrote this blog about the things I’d learnt from the humble workplace cuppa….

(Of course, now that there’s a lot more remote working for most organisations, the tea and coffee culture has changed again, but when I wrote this pre-covid, no-one was really thinking about that!)

I’ve just started a new interim contract with a client that I haven’t worked for before. It means a new organisation to get to know, new priorities and ways of working, a new office, new colleagues. And a whole new set of tea rules!

Luckily things are fairly straightforward. There’s a kitty and the milk gets delivered for everyone in the office to use. If you’re putting the kettle on, most people offer to make a brew for the others.

For a job I’ve just finished, I interviewed university students about their experiences on summer work placements. It was striking how many of them said that one of the most beneficial aspects was simply learning how to work in an office alongside other people. And that included getting to grips with the tea round!

Different approaches

Personally I think there’s a university dissertation to be written – if it hasn’t been already – about the different ways the tea round is handled in different organisations. I’ve worked for clients where:

  • all tea and coffee supplies are paid for centrally
  • there are many small ‘milk groups’
  • you make a cuppa for everyone else if you’re having one
  • you just make one for yourself and that’s ok.

Often I end up drinking peppermint tea because that way I just need some hot water for my tea bag!

What works for you?

I don’t think there’s a right or wrong way to do things. But I do suspect there is some bearing on engagement and culture. What works in one office space won’t necessarily be right for another group of colleagues somewhere else.

But if you get it wrong for your setting, it will affect people’s feelings about their workplace and colleagues, thereby impacting engagement levels.

The importance of the kitchen area

The kitchen is often a great centre of communication. It’s the classic water-cooler conversation, where people pause from their work and have a chat about the things that are uppermost in their minds. Often that won’t be work-related, but it is a great opportunity for the grapevine to kick in and for stories about the organisation to be passed along.

Every internal communicator knows that the grapevine is one of the most effective comms channels when it comes to spreading messages, although not necessarily accurate messages.

To address the accuracy point: the challenge for internal communicators is to tell really strong, meaningful stories so that they become something people want to talk about while the kettle boils. And to gather the stories that people are telling each other over the milk jug, so that they can be the basis of the culture across the organisation.

How does the tea round work in your office? And does it impact your colleagues’ engagement levels? I’d love to hear your experiences.

Get in touch if you would like help with communication and engagement at your organisation – we can have a no obligation chat over a cuppa.

Until next time
Sarah

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